Heightened emotion and desire to make the best selections for our homes is understandable. But the pressure to make the “perfect” choice for every single thing in our new builds can deplete our time, energy, peace of mind and definitely our enjoyment of the building process.  
​If you tend to overthink most things, or suffer from analysis paralysis or decision fatigue, this episode/post is for you.  

This is part 2 of a show/post that I started a couple of weeks ago.  If you haven’t listened to
part 1, you might want to do that now because we’ll have some quiz questions in this episode/post that will cover information from the current and the previous show/post. 




As I told you last time, I recently selected the plumbing fixtures for my project and was surprised about how much there is to consider when choosing toilets. In this week’s mini lesson we’ll cover one piece vs two piece toilets, toilet height, floor mount vs wall mount toilets and some options that you can look for that will help keep your toilets cleaner for longer.

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I recently selected the plumbing fixtures for my project and surprisingly, one of my toughest decisions to make was regarding which toilets to get.  I never know there was so much to consider when choosing toilets. Should you get a  one piece or two piece model? Where should you position the flush handle?  Is a single or dual flush toilet better?  Comfort height toilet or standard height toilet?  Floor mount or wall mount toilet? Should you pay extra for easy clean options?  And finally what color and style are best for your decor?


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No matter how large or small your house will be, most of us want our primary bathrooms to be a spa-like sanctuary, or at the very least a place where we can escape, renew and relax.    And with us spending more time at home over the last year, many of us are adding more amenities to our bathrooms and home— amenities that make our homes feel more comfortable and luxurious since we haven’t been able to get away on vacation, or even to the gym or spa when we’ve wanted to.  So today, we’ll explore some of the reasons you might consider putting a steam shower/room or sauna in your new home.


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This week I’ll give you an update on my own project and go over some miscellaneous tips and tidbits I’ve learned over the last several weeks of going through my personal build.   But let’s get started with a few shouts out. 




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Shouts out go to Lee J, Kind Consumer and LadyTracy5.  You guys are so sweet.  Thank you for listening and for taking time out of your schedules to write such positive  Apple Podcasts reviews.  You’ve helped me and the podcast/blog more than you probably know.  Those reviews publicly sing the praises of the podcast and act as recommendations for potential listeners.  It’s much more effective, and believable, when someone other than me recommends this podcast/blog.   So thanks to those of you have written reviews and those of you who tell your friends and family about the show/site.  



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Okay, let me tell what’s been going on with my build. I didn’t want to give you another update until I actually had a structure to talk about. And now I do.  We are currently framing. And I’m so excited. But it’s been a while since my last update, so here’s a summary of what’s happened so far.

If you are looking at multiple neighborhoods or lots on which to build your new house, there may be some areas on the outskirts of the city that might interest you, but require you to have a septic system.  Having some basic knowledge of septic systems and how they compare with city sewer systems will help you in making a decision about whether a lot needing a septic system could be right for you.  




Sewer systems are more common, and usually preferred, because they're funded and maintained by local governments. But as people move further away from cities, septic systems are becoming more popular.  About 1 in 5 US households use septic systems. Septic systems are environmentally friendly and give homeowners full control over their drainage.  Plus, being open to lots that require a septic system gives you so many more possibilities for your homesite, especially those site in rural areas.  





Many people are apprehensive about the costs and maintenance involved with a septic system. But does a septic system really cost more than sewer and require frequent maintenance? That’s some of what we’ll talk about today.  And If you fall in love with a lot needing a septic system, this episode will help you decide whether to put that lot on your short list of possible homesites, or whether to scratch it off your list all together.  





Before we move into the mini lesson, let’s go over a couple of pro terms.


Proterms:   Septic tank, effluent and drain field.


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Because of the odd, but real, pandemic-driven toilet paper shortages, more and more homeowners have added, or are  considering adding toilet seat bidets to their homes.   So, this week I thought it would be valuable to revisit an episode about bidets.  Now, keep in mind, bidets won’t usually completely eliminate the need for toilet paper, but will usually reduce your need to just a few squares per bathroom break.    






As you’ll hear, you’ll want to tell your electrician where you want to include toilet seat bidets so he can install an outlet near the toilet.  But what I’ve learned since that show, is that you’ll also want to instruct your plumber to plumb those toilets with both cold and hot water.  Typically a toilet only gets cold water, but if you’re adding a bidet, you don’t want a shocking blast of just cold water on your bottom when you activate the bidet.  You’ll want comfortably warm water, so make sure you tell your builder or plumber that you want  a cold and hot water mix for your bidets.  

​This week I have part 2 of the list of the best things homeowners did when building.  The information comes from a couple of posts at Houzz.com.  Homeowners who had built previously listed the favorite features they included in their builds—features that made life in the house easier and/or more enjoyable.  I listed the first 25 features in part one a couple of weeks ago, so let’s start with number 26.

I was recently on Houzz.com, on the the "Building a Home" forum, in the gardenweb.com section of the website. One of the discussions there caught my attention. I thought it would make a good podcast episode.  Homeowners were asked to list “The Best Things You Did When Building.”  This was a forum discussion where homeowners who had built previously listed the favorite features they included in their builds—features that made life easier and/or more enjoyable. 

Although I’m not particularly interested in having the very latest gadgets, electronics or technology in my house, one techie element I do want to invest in is fast, reliable internet service.  Having high speed internet is nice for those of us who mainly shop online and visit various websites and social media platforms. But a fast internet connection is especially important if you or your family members are gamers or movie or tv buffs who regularly use streaming services like Netflix or Hulu. Or if your household has multiple people using the internet simultaneously.  So, in this week’s mini lesson, I’ll tell you about fiber optics internet, the fastest type of internet connection available, and we’ll compare it to  the other internet options.  But let’s start the show by going over a pro term.


Pro term:  Streaming 

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Since we can often learn from the project of others, in this week’s episode, we’ll be reviewing a modern style, green home with Lake Washington views in the Seattle Washington area.   It’s a
2 story house that’s almost 3200 sq ft.  There are 4 bedrooms and 3.5 bathrooms, including a mother-in-law suite. The house has solar panels and is certified by the DOE Zero Energy Ready program, the Northwest Energy Star program and EPA Indoor airPLUS program.  And this home costs the homeowners only $21 per year for utilities (not $21 per month, but $21 per year!!). 




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As we usually do when we cover these highly energy efficient case study homes, let’s go over the climate where the house was built to see how it compares with the climate where you’re building. That will help guide you in figuring out whether certain features used in this case study house can be used for your own project.   

For years Fort Worth magazine has teamed up with an area builder and local designers and vendors to build a house highlighting the latest in home design.  Called the Dream Home,  it’s been a showcase house charity fund raiser that many in and around Dallas, TX look forward to every year.  




This year, for the first time, 3 homes were built to be showcased in an event called, not Dream Home, but Dream Street.  The 3 luxury showhomes were all on the same street in Southlake, TX, a suburb outside of Dallas.  Each house had a different builder and designer, so I knew it would be interesting to see the similarities and differences that showed up in the different houses.  Going to these showcase homes often lets us in on what’s up-and-coming and tried-and-true in homebuilding and decor. 




​My husband and I visited on the very last day of the tours.   Some of the most prominent design features were those that I’ve talked about before, and ones that I’ve seen in previous parades of homes.  But to me it’s always helpful to know what’s still trending and what has gone by the wayside.   So here are some of the design features seen in the Dallas Dream Street Showcase Homes.

A couple of weeks ago, I took a rode trip to the Vesta Parade of Homes in Memphis, TN.  As usual, there were several new construction houses in the same neighborhood that were open for tours. There were several changes this year because of COVID.  Each visitor was greeted at the front door of each of the houses by a friendly hostess who made sure we were all wearing masks and who encouraged us to use the hand sanitizer they supplied as we entered the house.  





I think this was my third year going to the Vesta parade of homes. And it never disappoints.  The houses were transitional in style, meaning there was a mix of traditional and contemporary decor.  Patterns and colors of furniture, rugs and art leaned just a little more traditional than contemporary, probably because of the southern sensibility of the homes and designers.   But materials and fixtures had mostly clean lines and sleek finishes and were similar to what I’ve seen used throughout the country and on design websites and in magazines.  Here is the list of design features seen at the Vesta Parade of Homes in Memphis.

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Choosing the right hot tub entails more than picking out the prettiest unit that’s within your budget.  It’s important to know the basics about a hot tub’s construction, jets, water pump, filtration system, and maintenance in order to choose a spa unit that will be enjoyable and energy efficient. Here is a list of things you should consider before buying a hot tub.

At the end of August, I released episode 212 where we talked about what features to choose if you want a quieter garage door.   In that show, we focused mainly on the garage door opener, track and overall apparatus. This week, we’ll focus on the outer shell of the garage door— the material the door is made of, and how it will affect the door’s look, price, durability, and level of maintenance. ​
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Average lumber prices more than doubled from mid April to late August 2020.  Prices moved from a low in April of $348 per thousand board feet to over $900 per thousand board feet in August. This price surge is adding over $16,000 to the price of the average single-family home according to the National Association of HomeBuilders.  And it’s adding several tens of thousands of dollars to higher end homes.  The extreme increase in lumber prices have be made worse by tariffs of more than 20% on Canadian lumber imported into the U.S. The U.S. typically gets quite a bit of lumber from Canada.





Given these historically high lumber prices, many homeowners and builders are currently wondering if prices are likely to decrease back toward normal; and if so, when?   Folks are further questioning whether now is the right time to start a build, or whether waiting is a better option. ​


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We've all heard how loud opening a garage door can be, but what you may not realize is that opening a garage door doesn’t have to be that noisy.  There are garage door and garage door opener features you can choose that can make opening your garage door much quieter, which is particularly important for attached garages and garages with rooms above them.   





If you’re not sure whether you want an attached or detached garage, you can listen to episode 199 called Pros and Cons of Attached vs Detached Garages.  The information in the that show should help you make a decision.  This week we’ll also cover when choosing 2 single garage doors is better than choosing one double wide door. 

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Between having to regularly endure the weight of heavy vehicles and varying outdoor elements such as driving rains, sweltering heat, ice and snow, driveways get lots of use and abuse. Therefore, it’s important that we choose the best driveway surface for our circumstances. There are several options to choose from and each has its pros and cons with respect to durability, maintenance, aesthetics, sustainability and price.   Keep in mind, when considering price, you want to be sure to factor in not only the initial cost of your driveway, but also the long-term costs associated with maintenance.  You’ll also want to  think about how the material will perform  your area’s climate.  Some driveway materials may be better for your region’s weather conditions than others.




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In this mini lesson, we’ll talk about the most commonly used driveway materials on the market, starting with the least expensive option.  As we go through the list, you’ll see that the options get progressively more costly.

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In the last episode we started discussing how to compromise with our partners when designing and building a house.  This week, we’ll complete our list of tips that will help us come through the homebuilding process with a home and relationship that both partners are happy with.  Now remember, not every suggestion will work in every single situation, but you should be able to find at least one or two tips on the list that will help you come to a compromise for almost every disagreement.  
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As a reminder, here the first 7 tips on our list:


1. Don’t take your partner’s difference of opinion as a personal attack.
2.  Follow the 80:20 rule.  
3.  Think of the problem as your adversary, not your partner.  
4.  Pick your battles.
5.  Be careful when compromising about the budget. 
6.  Make a list, and check it twice. 
7.  Allow for 3-5 vetos each.





Alright, let’s finish up our list of tips on how to more easily compromise with our partners during the homebuilding journey.




8.  Make sure you’re sometimes home-free.

Building and decorating a house should be, and can be, a really happy time in your life. But it can also be a time of stress.   One of major sources of stress can come from having to make a number of decisions that both you and your partner have to agree upon.  How do you design and decorate a home when you and your significant other have completely different styles? Even when people have very similar tastes, there will inevitably be some areas where  one person’s first choice is different than their partner’s.  




In this mini lesson, we’ll go over tips on how to compromise with your partner during the homebuilding journey.  Not every suggestion will work in every single situation, but you should be able to find at least one or two tips on the list that will help you come to a compromise for almost every disagreement.  



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When deciding on which contractors to use for your project, you’ll need to compare prices, which means asking each potential contractor how much they will charge. There are several ways a contractor or supplier can outline cost:  an estimate, a quote, and a bid.  



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Although the terms are sometimes used interchangeably, there are important distinctions that we should understand. That’s what we’ll talk about in this mini lesson— the difference between an estimate, a quote and a bid.  


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Do y’all remember that episode of Seinfeld where the girl Jerry was dating looked either really pretty or really unattractive depending on the lighting she was in?  That bad lighting is what we want to avoid, especially in our homes.  Although I don’t consider myself to be overly concerned with looks, I’d rather avoid the spooky, ghoulish shadows  on faces that can show up because of poorly designed lighting.






It used to be that only models, actresses, photographers and entertainers were aware of what type of lighting is most flattering.  But in this new era of selfies, social media posts, and You Tube channels, lighting our homes in a way that flatters us and our surroundings has become top of mind for even the average Jo(e). 




I’ve done a basic lesson on the terminology and logistics of lighting, in episode 103 called Lighting 101, but I thought it would be helpful to come up with a list of tips that would we can incorporate into homes to not only make the lighting design functional, but also flattering. If we can do relatively simple things in our homes to make us look and feel our best, why not?  I mean, we need to include lighting in our houses anyway, so why not use and place fixtures so that they shine the very best light on ourselves and our guests?​



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In the last episode/post we began a mini lesson on range hoods, also called vent hoods and exhaust hoods.  We talked about how you should properly size and position your hood, and what amount of power you’ll need.  And I strongly recommended that, if at all possible, you should choose a ducted system that takes stale air outdoors.   In this week’s episode, we’ll talk more about vent hoods and how we can make them quieter.






As I told you, the range hood can really shape our experience in and around the kitchen, for better or worse.  If you don’t choose an exhaust hood that is the  right size and power for your stove, you’ll be hot, and your hair, clothing and adjoining rooms will smell like whatever you cooked.  Ever go to a restaurant and leave reeking of food odors?  That’s because the restaurant didn’t have proper ventilation. So, we definitely want a strong vent hood.  But as you probably know,  a strong vent hood can be annoyingly loud. This week, we’ll discuss what we can do to make our vent hood less obnoxious.  How we can make them as quiet as possible.

We typically give quite a bit of thought to most of our kitchen appliance choices. But exhaust hoods, they get much less love.  Most people don’t give range hoods the attention they deserve. They might think some about the aesthetic design of the range hood, but not a lot of people think through how to size and position their hood, and what features they should look for in a range hood that will give them the the perfect balance of suction power and quietness. 





If you think about it, the range hood, also called an exhaust hood and a vent hood, is one of the more hardworking appliances in the kitchen.  Because it removes irritating fumes, smoke, heat, odors and potentially damaging moisture, the exhaust hood allows for a safer, more comfortable, cleaner, less smelly, and more enjoyable kitchen experience.   So in this mini lesson and the next one, we’ll discuss few things that will help us make informed decisions about what sort of hood we should choose.  

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This week we have the second half of our list of design tips that should help us start thinking through the interior decor for each room of our homes.  Last week, we talked about some of the first things we should consider when starting a room design.




I suggest you take a listen to last week’s episode if you haven’t already because we discussed some foundational design guidelines that will help you know where to start decorating a room or house.  Knowing where to begin is sometimes the hardest part of choosing your decor.  If we can figure out our starting point, the rest of the design will often fall into place.  



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